There are normally a few different people that will give toasts at a wedding reception, but we’ll cover the basics for the Groom and Best Man. Begin to write a Toast and/or Thank You speech. For the Groom, you may want to start by writing down a list of people you would like to and should thank publicly before or after the toast. Her parents should be at the top of the list, then your Bride, your parents,your Best Man, Groomsmen.

As far as toasts go, writing a toast should be just a framework, so don’t actually read your toasts from a piece of paper. It makes it too impersonal. Here are few tips:

• All toasts should be limited at a max of 4:
           Best Man
           You ,the Groom
           The Fathers

• No “open-mic” toasts, they get boring and sloppy.

• Always stand when you give a toast. If the majority of people have trouble seeing you, make sure you move to a location that will allow everybody to see you.

• Speak loudly and clearly so all guests to hear. Grab a microphone! There’s nothing worse than clapping for a toast you didn’t hear.

• Don’t give a long drawn out speech! People want to get on with the celebration. Keep it short and to the point. Try to aim for approx 1 minute.

• The Groom should toast or thank his Bride and the Bride’s parents. Talk about how you look forward to a new life with their daughter, and that you’re the luckiest guy in the world. Reassure everybody that you will do your best to take care of her, and keep her happy. Keep it short and sweet.

• If your fiancé’s native language is different than your own, learn a few phrases, such as “Welcome”, “Thank-you”, and “ I love you.” Include them in your toast.

• Know what you are going to say at least a week in advance. Make sure you practice the speech in front of people you can count on to give an honest opinion. Practicing also helps dispel any nervousness you might have.

• Add something witty wherever possible, but only if the comments are tasteful. Don’t try to bring up any shameful or embarrassing moments. If you have a toast idea and you don’t think it would go over well with everyone at the wedding, chances are it won’t. Try and keep it G rated.

• Don’t ever give a drunken toast. Nothing is worse then listening to someone stumble away for half an hour. If you need to calm your nerves, have a drink, but stop when you’re relaxed and comfortable. Know your limit!

• For the Best Man or Groomsmen: A foolproof toast starts with saying how long you have known the couple and that they are both amazing people and together they make a dynamic duo. Mention those you are toasting by name, your relationship to them, and a thought about the wedding. If you are the Best Man, it might be nice to say how long you’ve known the Groom and Bride. When preparing your toast, think of something to say that would express how wonderful the couple is. Think about their history, and bring up something that might be of interest to all of those in attendance, but nothing too personal.

• Don't forget to cap off the toast by having everybody raise their glasses, and toasting the new Bride and Groom.